Family Estrangement Coaching
It takes courage for you to even be reading this. I know, because I’ve been exactly where you are, estranged from my adult child and wondering if I would ever feel happy and whole again.
Tense communications where things went off the rails, if we did manage to communicate at all.
Feeling like I’d lost everything, even if I “won” the argument.
I spent years figuring out what works, and learning what NOT to do. I became a Certified Coach, and took additional training in family estrangement and communication.
Now, I combine my training with my lived experience of estrangement, reconciliation and emotional healing to help you feel better and repair your family. And I do it from a Biblical, God-led perspective.
Your chance for happiness is not gone.
Reclaiming your happiness and repairing your family is not as impossible as you think.
It’s not a puzzle that’s solvable only to a select few people.
It boils down to 3 steps:
Inner work
Communication techniques
Reconciliation planning
That’s it.
The enemy wants you to believe it’s too complicated to fix things. The enemy is a liar.
In family estrangement coaching, I walk you through every single step.
I’ll tell you everything you need to know, and everything not to waste your time and energy on…
So that you Finally Know How To Navigate This.
and you…
➡️ Stay on track, even when your adult child says triggering things.
➡️ Waste zero time writing an amends letter that doesn’t work.
➡️ Stop spinning in doubt, sadness and confusion, and giving your power away
Right now, you don’t know where to start to pick up the broken pieces and create a meaningful plan of action.
And that’s okay.
We go to the root of the problem to repair your feelings and your family.
This is more than a Band Aid to cover the wound.
You’ll learn how to:
Heal from the trauma of estrangement
Respond from a place of calm and confidence instead of reacting from pain or anger
Use a 4-step tool to communicate in ways that actually work
Write a Door Opening Message that gets far better than an Amends Letter
Take negative thoughts captive and change the inner stories that are working against you
Feel in control of your emotions, even when your child says hard things
Break free from people-pleasing and co-dependency when it comes to your adult child
Know exactly how to create the emotional safety your child needs in order to move forward with your relationship
Here’s why This works for everyone:
No matter where you are in the estrangement process, how long it’s been or how many mistakes you think you’ve made, I can help you feel better and maximize your chance of reconciling with your adult child.
Because I’m giving you the missing tools you need.
✔️ We start with healing you first. God says to build our house on a solid foundation. Your inner work creates a healed and whole foundation to build from.
✔️ I teach you a 5-step process that brings you out of any trigger and helps your thoughts work for you instead of against you.
✔️ Next, you learn communication techniques that get more desirable responses from your adult child, without compromising your values. You also learn exactly how to respond when they say something that’s not true.
✔️ We create a reconciliation plan that takes you from no-contact to opening the door of communication. Without the right plan, it’s like trying to drive somewhere you’ve never been without a map. We write a Door Opening Message, which works better than an amends letter. And you get direction around navigating those first, difficult conversations with your child.
you get ongoing support, guidance and personalized answers to your questions.
You will never get that level of expertise and support from a free Facebook Group, or yet another audiobook.
Let’s have a conversation.
The next step is a free consultation call, where I review the specifics of your situation and make recommendations for how to move forward.
I will also explain how we can work together to help you feel better and heal your family relationship.
Jenny’s teachings have produced results reconnecting me with my estranged daughter
I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible support and guidance received in the most tragic time of my life from coach Jenny Good. Her faith, compassion, understanding, dedication and display of radical love has truly been life-changing for me. I was so overwhelmed with feelings of confusion, guilt, and sadness. I felt lost and didn't know how to navigate through the emotional turmoil I was experiencing. However, from the very first call, Jenny created a safe and non-judgmental space for me to share my details. Her ability to listen attentively and empathize while helping me understand a different way of thinking is truly remarkable. She understood my feelings and offered tools each session in ways I have not experienced even from therapy. I am forever thankful for the medicine she has poured into me to be the very best version of myself! This has rippled into all areas of life for me. Jenny’s teachings have produced results reconnecting me with my estranged daughter! Thank you for being the vessel of unwavering faith & love that so many of us could benefit from, estranged or not. A true Godsend.
- Melinda Wyman
My formerly estranged daughter wants to meet with me for lunch
Without Jenny’s knowledge, guidance, compassion, finesse and every other tool she had to engage in spiritual warfare against the enemy, I do not know where I would be today. When my daughter first estranged I was totally shattered and paralyzed with the deepest grief. I could barely concentrate on anything. No sleep, only crying. I was searching, but I didn’t have a clue where to go for help, until I was referred to Jenny. I knew instantly that I was home. That there was hope! And with God’s Spirit and grace with us, there could be peace and a path to reconciliation. My formerly estranged daughter wants to meet with me for lunch, and I feel so blessed that you are our estrangement coach. We are going to make it after all!
- Wanda Wright Henkel
I had to find someone that could help me walk this path of family estrangement
I found myself on a path I never dreamed I would be on…“Estranged Parent” of an adult child. This was a title I never wanted, and thought it would never exist in our family. After trying for over a year to work my way through this unthinkable hurt, I had to find someone that could help me walk this path of family estrangement. I was blessed to find Jenny Good. Jenny has been a vital part of helping me walk this path with more strength and clarity than I could find on my own. Her kind and caring nature, and the wisdom she imparts, is so valuable. There is such a need for estranged parents to be coached by someone that has experienced this same hurt first hand. Jenny is a blessing I will always be thankful for.
- Charlotte P.
My son agreed to meet with me
When I decided to work with Jenny Good, I was desperate to find relief for my broken heart, and to mend the relationship with my son and DIL. I have now been able to do without my anxiety medication because Jenny gave me tools to manage my emotions. And, after Jenny and I worked together to create the right communication to my son, he has agreed to meet with my husband and me! I have a new found hope since working with Jenny. Reach out to her if you’re struggling with estrangement.
- Lisa Nagle-Tripp
It worked!
After two failed attempts with other counselors, one a secular therapist and another a Christian Pastor, I was left frustrated that neither had given me an action plan, which is what I so desperately was needing.
Jenny's approach was different and exactly what I needed. She had a well thought out plan, which I followed completely. I surrendered to the process and to the timing of Jesus.
It worked! I was able to reconnect with my daughter. However, this was NOT the miracle. The miracle was the woman I became following Jenny's guidance. The mother, wife, daughter and friend I am now is someone I cherish. I now have the tools to be the woman God designed me to be.
-Kim P.
I am living a truly happy life, and I reconciled with my son
Having a coach and mentor who is rooted in Christ is very important. I’ve experienced so much inner healing with Jenny as my Coach. I am living a truly happy life, and I reconciled with my son! I feel empowered to continue stepping into my full power as a mother and to live a life where my children matter, but they don’t determine my worth. I am me again.
- Carol Adams
Jenny has helped me so much with people pleasing
Jenny has helped me so much with people pleasing, finding my inner strength and working on my family relationships. It’s been such a valuable experience and I highly recommend working with her as your coach if you want to break free from people pleasing, heal mother wounds or improve your communication with a rocky family relationship.
- Cheryl H.
Jenny has given me a new toolbox
Jenny truly is a great coach. She pinpoints areas of communication that can really be improved and has a great skill of offering succinct, powerful strategies that have helped me find peace in my estranged relationship. Jenny has given me a new toolbox, filled with strategies, approaches, and vocabulary, which has greatly helped me work through my feelings to find strength in myself and not get swallowed up in the anxiety and sadness of estrangement.
- Ruth
I have found joy and peace again
Jenny has been so helpful in guiding gently so that the estrangement experience does not define or control my life anymore. Jenny’s prompts and questions allowed me to reclaim my power and decide how I wanted to show up regardless of what my child chose to do. I have found joy and peace again and I know that there is hope for reconciliation in God’s time.
-Norma E.
She helped me become stronger
Jenny taught me how to separate my pain from my past story, and to see the love and care I can still bring to my children during estrangement. She helped me become stronger, not just as their mother, but as a daughter of the Most High King. Today, I am thankful for the lessons I learned, the opportunity to look at myself in an honest way, own my part and have compassion for my children. I am so grateful for Jenny’s gentle spirit, her prayers and her encouragement to become the best version of myself; for myself, my family and especially the Lord.
- Dawn Jackson
The best version of myself
Working with Jenny has truly been a blessing… She's compassionate, listens, and has gone above and beyond to help me be the best version of myself. She has been a huge part of my journey and I'm so excited for what's to come as we continue working together!! Thank you, Jenny! You will always be a part of my story.
- Tara Hernandez